Hello everyone, today I’m going to give you a run down of my personal experience has been with having our Ethan, but not being married. So first off, me and Jordan got together November 2nd, 2015. So we’ve been together 3 years now, and everything was good, we barely argued, barely fought, but when Ethan was born, that all changed. Here lately it’s been a whirlwind of fights, and arguments, and annoyance, and it’s really stressful and it’s completely disappointing. It’s not disappointing because we’re fighting to break up, but it’s disappointing because we’re not on the same page with parenting, and I’d like to be. It’s definitely a struggle, finding what works for him and not for me but what works for me and not for him, Ethan has his own preferences and sometimes those change depending on the person that has him.
So let’s talk about that, eh? So this is where it gets tricky, if you’re a new mom and your SO and you are having some trouble, I challenge you to sit down with him/her and find your middle piece. The sweet spot in your relationship and parenting, and write it all out. Seriously. Writing everything out on paper to where it’s visible what’s wrong and going on, you might see a pattern from someone and be able to fix it before it becomes an actual issue. Our goals as parents is to make the most comfortable, stress-free, and loving environment for our babies as possible. So go ahead, sit down, talk, write it out, and fix yourselves so your baby can know happiness all around, and don’t worry, it’ll help you a LOT! They’ll sleep better, be calmer, and overall happier than they are when it’s a stressful environment.
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